Saturday, 19 September 2009

• Our image on self worth is seriously messed up.

  I was reading a blog today on datingish, asking for advice, and its seriously saddened me. I mean i felt like i knew these girls, mainly because i once was best friend with a girl like this. I refuse to mention any names. This friend of mine came from a broken home, her brother had a disorder that forced him to use a wheelchair most of his life, when her parents were together most of the attention went to her brother. This left my poor friend alone without parental enrichment, or disapline she needed and desired. I had been friends with her since i was in first grade and she was two years older than me, Because her father left them when she had begun middle school, she experienced the lack of fatherly protection i think every girl should have. So when she told me she was pregnant again this past summer, it truely hurt me that she hadn't learned her lessons the times before, not to mention avoided the emotional pain she had before when she had miscarriages.

  Everytime she told me about the boys she dated they were all the same jerks who treated her like dirt who had a father that was abusive and left their family for some other woman to terrorize. The first one i actually met, hit her, and me it made me mad when she told me about this past boyfriend. She told me he made her feel attactive and beautiful; which she is but i don't reccomend how he told it too her, the last time i saw her we had been previously talking on the phone for weeks in advance of the visit. When i saw her again i realized she hadn't changed at all, it broke my heart and i decided i wouldn't talk to her anymore because i couldn't handle all the pain i felt for her.

  She sought selfworth in sex, men, and the cmpetition for men. I wanted her to realize she was strong enough to not have a petty relationship

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